Valentine’s Day Family Drama

I’m writing this on Valentine’s Day and appreciating my husband and family as we exchange cards, candy and flowers.  Big news this year is that my 14 year old son has his very own valentine. He’s entered the world of giving Valentine’s to someone other than his mother (sigh).  His girlfriend gets top billing this year. He did give me some candy, so I wasn’t completely forgotten.

Tyler bought his girlfriend a dozen red roses, a big box of candy, in a heart-shaped box of course, and a lovely card (it was very sweet, but don’t tell anyone I read it!).  He outdid his father!

And I don’t know about you, but I don’t remember any of my high school boyfriends giving me all that stuff.  And where’s all the money coming from? He shopped with his dad and I was told he paid for it himself. I’m not so sure.

Anyway, he’s being a very good boyfriend and I’m sure his girl will be thrilled.  So here’s the family drama. Lea is not thrilled with Tyler’s new found love. As I may have mentioned before, Lea is 11 going on 16 and she’d really like to have a boyfriend (thankfully she doesn’t yet).  She’s feeling very left out and getting a card from her parents just doesn’t cut it when she sees the flowers, etc. for Tyler’s girlfriend

This statement kind of sums it up for her: “Tyler’s happiness sickens me!”

She really said that! How’s that for a supportive sister?

So, while she’s not accepting Valentines from boyfriends at the moment, I’m sure it won’t be long before she’s getting her fair share of  flowers and candy.  I have a feeling there’s a LOT more drama in my future.

But you know, I wouldn’t want to miss a minute of it! It’s all part of the parenting package.

Would love to hear of any Valentine Drama in your life!